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Many parents wonder if they should introduce a pacifier to their baby. Will it become a bad habit? Is it safe? Will it mess up my baby’s teeth? Does it ultimately help or hinder sleep? How will I remove it? These are questions I get all the time.  There are many benefits to pacifier use: reduced risk of SIDS, it satisfies the non-nutritive sucking need (the sucking reflex that is not associated with hunger), ease of soothing and comfort in times of…

While some newborns take easily to the bottle, it may take a bit of effort to get others to accept the bottle. Ideally you wait until baby is at least 4 weeks old before introducing the bottle as this helps to ensure that your milk supply is well-established and that baby can transition easily between the bottle and the breast. Topics this article will cover: Tips for getting a breastfed baby to take a bottle How the manage bottle refusal Recommended bottles…

Many parents find themselves in an unsustainable sleep situation due to lack of sleep from nighttime parenting. Unfortunately, there is no cry-free solution that yields effective, quick results (if there was, someone would be very, very wealthy!). No parent likes to hear their baby cry. It feels counter-intuitive to willingly allow your baby to cry and many parents worry that the crying involved in many sleep training methods will harm their baby. With buzzing social media feeds, endless google searches, and conflicting…

The golden rule of writing an effective birth plan is to to include only non-routine preferences or those that are of great importance to you. This is your opportunity to get educated on your options, determine the path to a positive birth experience, and to communicate your wishes with your medical care team.  Topics this article will cover: What to include in your birth plan Understanding your options for birth How to best communicate your preferences How to ensure your birth plan is…

Sleep can be tough to come by during the first 3 months of a baby’s life. These tips will help to establish a healthy foundation to optimize your baby’s sleep (and yours!) during this sensitive time. Topics in this article: How to maximize your newborn’s sleep How to establish the optimal conditions for newborn sleep How to set a healthy foundation of good sleep for the future I get asked all the time about what you can do to get better nights…

Your brand-new baby needs a lot of sleep but does not know the difference between daytime and nighttime and will likely need help falling (and staying!) asleep. Below are three tips to help optimize your 1-month-old’s sleep! Topics this article will cover:  What is normal for newborn sleep/what to expect  How to make sure your newborn is sleeping their best  Tips to establish a healthy foundation for your newborn’s sleep A newborn’s sleep cycle interacts with their need to be fed (babies…

As a birth and baby worker, I often get asked about the best baby items to have on hand. Prior to having my third baby (as I write this she is 4 weeks old), I would often come up blank as my older children are 7 and 9 years old and so much has changed in the baby industry since then. Now that I am a mother to a newborn once again, I can pass along my recommendations for my top 15…

When does teething impact sleep? While teething can occasionally disrupt sleep… it’s far less the cause of sleep a disturbance than most people think. For babies who follow an age-appropriate schedule, meet their daily sleep needs, and are able to put themselves to sleep, teething will likely go unnoticed or may cause a minor sleep disruption. We tend to see teething have a more dramatic impact for those children who are overtired and/or don’t know how to put themselves to sleep. Most…

As we approach “Spring Forward” for Daylight Savings Time (DST), many parents worry about the change of schedule impacting their little one’s sleep. The fear of the loss of progress we have made in getting our kids to sleep feels threatened- you are not in alone in feeling like this but FEAR NOT! Most children will adjust naturally based on the changes to daylight and darkness (our bodies are quite adept at adjusting to time changes!). Here are a few strategies for…

There is a magic in the dark silent hours of the night Somehow it is an honor to be one of the few awake The rest of the world slumbers as we witness the minutes become hours, the moon tracing across the sky Hands pulsate with vibrations of love Release. Relax. Open. Find the softness. Trust. Few words are spoken but they all brim with love We work to create the space for life to move in The key that only she…

One of the most important factors in determining how your birth goes (particularly in regards to medical interventions, procedures, and medications) depends upon whom you choose to be your prenatal provider. Of course, there are many providers out there, often with differing views of childbirth, regardless if they are a midwife or doctor (for example, some providers take a very medical view of birth, seeing it as so unpredictable that it is safest and best to use many medical procedures during birth…

Positive birth stories can be hard to come by but are essential in preparing for an empowering birthing experience. We must end the cycle of perpetuating the myth that birth is a horrible experience that we need to endure and survive. With the right preparation, support, and mindset, every woman can have a positive experience that she can hold sacred, as my dear client, Lucia, shares below.  Giving birth felt like traveling to the door of eternity or another world to me to receive the…

It’s best to wait until baby is 4 weeks old before introducing the pump. Many breastfeeding mothers are eager to start pumping to get an “emergency stash”, prepare for the return to work, or to simply get a break from breastfeeding every 2-3 hours. I get it!! BUT it’s best to wait until your baby is at least 4 weeks old before introducing the pump and the bottle as we don’t want to interfere with your body’s regulation of milk supply (introducing…

So perhaps you understand what a doula is, but exactly does a doula do? 1. A doula supports the expectant mother and her partner throughout the pregnancy and is available to answer any questions or concerns about pregnancy, prenatal tests, and birth. 2. A doula meets with the expectant couple, usually in their home, at least once prior to the birth, around 30-35 weeks into the pregnancy. 3. Prior to labor, a doula helps the mother prepare for birth by educating her…

Many assume that doulas only support natural birth or that you only need a doula if you want to have a natural birth. Doulas— especially the good ones— support all types of birth. Having attended natural, epidural, and cesarean births, I can tell you that each and every type of birth can benefit from doula support. In fact, my clients who have had births that have resulted in a c-section have needed even more support than my clients who have had natural…

First trimester aversions, breastfeeding struggles and colic, and toddler picky eating can all make it seem like it is impossible to get in the healthiest foods, but it is also the most critical period for optimal growth and development. I want to share some of the best growing foods to get the most bang for your buck during pregnancy, infancy, childhood and beyond. Our most vulnerable babes need protection against the toxins, refined sugar, antibiotics, pesticides, EMFs, and all the other scary things…

A woman in labor is in a very vulnerable state— she is often experiencing intense physical and emotional sensations, working hard to allow her body to relax enough to open, and preparing her psyche for the birth of her baby— this is no small feat. For many women, this is one of their greatest accomplishments and, however it goes, an experience that they will remember for the rest of their life. I often think about other mammals in labor when I think…

One of the most common misconceptions about doula support is that doulas replace or take away from a partner’s role. I understand where this concern comes from but most doulas (especially the good ones!) make it a priority to involve, empower, and support the partner. 5 Reasons Every Partner Can Benefit from Doula Support 1. A Doula Helps the Partner Help the Mother Most partners want to be active participants in the birthing experience but do not know specifically how to best…

Four hours after my baby girl was born, she stopped breathing in my arms. We were transferred to Beth Israel Hospital in Boston. Thankfully after an extremely stressful and emotional 2 weeks, we were finally home with our little bundle. That’s a long story for another day, but it is one reason why writing and remembering my birth story is so important to me. It was the most amazing experience of my life and the birth I never really knew I wanted…

Hi Joyful Birthing friends! I am thrilled to introduce myself and share some insight to a healthy and happy prenatal and postpartum experience with you. My name is Katharine Murphy and I am a Nutritional Therapy Consultant, Licensed Clinical Social Worker and mom of two, living in West Newbury. I am incredibly passionate about helping women to feel their best, look their best, and have an enjoyable pregnancy that leads to a healthy and happy babe. I believe with all my heart…

Hello Joyful Birthing! My name is Darcie Pervier– I am a very personal person by nature. It makes me laugh to think my passion in life is to help girls and women learn about their bodies inside and out. That means sharing with the world, my rocky recovery from child birth. I delivered both of my children vaginally while never getting past 8.5 cm….. Need I say more!??? I have been a physical therapist for over 16 years, I am a mom…

There are many reasons why your provider may suggest an induction of labor. I will not go into these reasons here but– as with all medical decisions– be sure that you understand the risks and benefits and that you ultimately make an informed choice (definitely take the time to read the articles on evidencebasedbirth.com, talk to your doula, and ask your provider A LOT of questions). If you have an induction scheduled and are hoping to go into labor on your own…

For as long as I can remember I was drawn to the miracle of birth. Like my grandfather (a prominent OBGYN in Philadelphia) I wanted to deliver babies, but daunted by the path to medical school, I pursued a career as a high-school English teacher instead, received my MA from Middlebury College and focused on helping adolescents find their voice in the classroom and navigate life’s challenges. When I became pregnant with my first child in 2011, I was determined to have…

When I first heard of HypnoBirthing, I was pregnant with my first child and eager to have a natural birth. I found a podcast on birthing methods and listened to the founder of HynoBirthing, Marie Mongan, talk about its philosophy and techniques, and the calm, gentle, and sometimes pain-free birthing experiences of HypnoBirthing mothers. I was instantly hooked and quickly signed up for a class. I loved every minute of the 12-hour series… it was a full education on all things birth…

The most common reason that mothers wean early or add in supplemental formula is due to concerns about inadequate milk supply. As a doula and lactation counselor, this is the postpartum concern I hear the most frequently. First, determine if you need to work on your supply. If your baby has exceeded her birth weight and is producing at least 4 stools a day, then you have a healthy, adequate supply. Striving to increase your supply may lead to engorgement, sore nipples,…

I just got back from an amazing Spinning Babies Workshop and I’m eager to share what I’ve learned with my students, doula clients, and all of those Mamas out there preparing for birth. In a nutshell: position matters— your position, baby’s position; in pregnancy and in labor. “Optimal fetal positioning” has been a bit of a buzz term lately and I have even seen some debate on whether it matters, but let me tell you— it matters, much more than you think!…

For many women, a positive experience can be hard to come by. Ask around and you will likely discover this for yourself. It is all too easy for a woman’s birth to slip out of her control and into the hands of procedure, routine, the clock, concern for liability, etc. But the key to a positive birth experience is not complicated; it does not require voodoo, chanting, or even homebirth. When it comes to having an empowering birthing experience, it all comes…